When should you hold a baby shower?
The ideal time is between the seventh and eighth month of pregnancy: the mum-to-be is still comfortable enough to enjoy the party, and the gifts arrive in time. Some families prefer to wait until after the birth for a "sip and see", a gathering to meet the newborn.
Who organises it and who to invite?
Traditionally, close friends or a sister organise the party, so the mum-to-be doesn't have to prepare anything. Guests are the loved ones she feels comfortable with: friends, family, colleagues. Mixed baby showers, with the dad-to-be and friends of the couple, are becoming more and more common.
Gentle and joyful activities
No need for a packed schedule. A few activities are enough to create lovely memories:
- Baby pool: date, weight, length, first name... everyone makes their guess, and the winner is revealed at the birth.
- A guest book where everyone leaves a piece of advice or a wish for baby.
- Decorating onesies with fabric markers.
- A workshop for making dried flower crowns or mobiles.
A registry to share with the invitation
Slip your baby registry link into the invitation: your guests choose a gift with no duplicates.
Gifts: share the baby registry
Slip the baby registry link into the invitation. Each guest reserves the item they're bringing, which avoids duplicates. For a bigger piece of equipment, several guests can chip in together thanks to group gifting: this is often the moment for the pushchair or car seat.
The little messages guests leave with their reservation stay hidden until the birth: a lovely surprise to read at the maternity ward.
A party that reflects the parents
A baby shower doesn't have to be spectacular. An afternoon tea at home, a brunch in a garden or a picnic are enough. Think about the mum-to-be's comfort: a comfy chair, non-alcoholic drinks, breaks, and a reasonable length.
Frequently asked questions
Is the baby shower a French tradition?+
Originally from the United States, it has become widely established in France. Each family adapts it in their own way: an afternoon tea with friends, a mixed party or a gathering after the birth.
Should you bring a gift?+
It's customary, but there's no obligation to spend a lot. A small item from the registry, a contribution to a group gift or a handmade object are just as appreciated.
A registry to share with the invitation
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